As I've preached recently, no one is going to make any decisions for you, so you need to gather as much information as possible. To that end, there are questions any prostate patient should ask...besides “What the hell is your finger doing there?” The question list below is far from exhaustive (and more is better), but it's a start.
What are my numbers?
In order to speak intelligently about your condition, you need to be able to give doctors the results of any testing you have had including, but certainly not limited to, PSA numbers (I know, I know) and, if you've had a biopsy and the results were positive for cancer, your Gleason score(s).
This may sound obvious, but while my urologist referred to my numbers he did not give them to me until I asked.
Where can I go for a second opinion?
Your physician should be eager to provide this information...if he/she isn't, find another physician.
How many cases like mine do you treat? What are your outcomes?
Having decided upon surgery, I wanted a surgeon who performed a boatload of procedures like mine...no practicing on this body. I opted for a surgeon who performs 400 robotic prostatectomies a year.
What are the likely post-treatment complications and how do I address them?
I was well aware of the possibility of erectile dysfunction and incontinence following my surgery, and had a plan in place to deal with each.
It's always a good idea (actually, it's essential) to have someone go with you to any consultations. There often is so much information provided you might miss something; another person might also ask important questions that haven't occurred to you. Further, it's good to have someone there to provide support as you are confronted with the realities of your condition or disease.
Finally, here's the first “There Goes My Prostate” challenge...send me questions you think are important to ask and I'll post them here for others. Now, send me your questions!
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